Before applying to a training cohort, we ask you to attend at least two free Empathy Circle Cafes.
Each session runs about 60–90 minutes in a small group via Zoom or in person. Circles happen throughout the week.
An Empathy Circle is a structured, mutual listening practice rooted in Carl Rogers' active listening — also known as reflective listening. Rather than teaching empathy as a concept, it creates the lived experience of it.
Each person takes a turn as both speaker and listener. The listener's only job is to hear what was said — and reflect it back. Not to advise, fix, or respond. Just to listen silently. The speaker feels heard, often for the first time in a long time.
Participants consistently describe leaving feeling lighter, more connected to others, and more present to themselves. The effect is simple and surprisingly profound.
Shares whatever is present — feelings, thoughts, experiences. They continue speaking until they feel fully heard and satisfied.
Reflects back the essence of what the speaker said — not the words, but the meaning and feeling. Checks: "Did I get that?"
The rest of the circle listens fully without speaking — practicing deep attention and receiving the experience of others.
Explains how to participate in the empathy circle. Watches that roles are kept, gently intervenes when needed, keeps time.
Speaking turns are timed so that every participant gets the same amount of time. Everyone speaks, reflects, and listens silently. The circle creates mutual care and equal voice.
You need to experience the practice as a participant before you can facilitate it for others. Two sessions gives you enough feel for the circle to know whether facilitating it is right for you.
First time is always a little unfamiliar. Here's exactly what happens.
You join the Zoom room. A facilitator welcomes everyone, briefly explains the circle format, and answers any quick questions.
The facilitator walks through the simple "How To" instructions — usually takes 5 minutes. The process is straightforward.
Small groups of 3–5 people enter breakout rooms. Roles rotate every few minutes. You speak, you reflect, you listen silently.
Everyone returns to the main room to share reflections. What did you notice? What surprised you? How did it feel?
Most Cafes run 60–90 minutes. The circle is experiential — to get the full experience, we recommend staying for the whole session.
You don't need to prepare a topic or think about what to say. Come as you are. The circle meets you there.
Drop-in sessions every week. No registration needed. Just click the Zoom link and join.
From the live global calendar — updated automatically.
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